Teen Of the Week (TOW) #3

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Hello Teens,

So once again, it is the time when we get to pronounce yet another person Teen Of the Week! Here is a cool guy, smart, and entrepreneurship-minded who just got pronounced as our third TOW. I had  little discussion with him, and see how it all went down.




HELLO THERE, COULD YOU TELL ME YOUR NAME?
Fortunatus Ekklesiah, I also have adopted Tonics, and it's my brand to the world!


OH SO I CAN CALL YOU TONICS THEN?
Sure! I would appreciate in fact, if you do!


OKAY. SO HOW OLD ARE YOU TONICS?        
(Laughs) My age again? Uhm... quitting Teenage on December!


OH COOL! SO TELL ME WHAT COUNTRY YOU'RE FROM.
Tanzania, the Land of the Mighty Mount Kilimanjaro and the Beautiful Zanzibar Islands!


WOW. SO WE HAVE TWO TANZANIAN TOWs TWICE IN A ROW! COOL.
Yeah! Tanzania rocks, doesn't it (Laughs)?


YEAH IT DOES. SO, WHAT'RE YOUR HOBBIES?
Uhm...quite a lot:  reading Inspirational literature, talking to people about their lives (I'm a motivational speaker and life coach in fact). I also like singing and playing instruments, writing and composing poems, walking, meditating, surfing the web and a lot more, exclude sports though!


(Laughs) SECOND GUY I'M MEETING WHO IS NOT INTO SPORTS. SO WHAT ARE YOU PASSIONATE ABOUT? WHAT ARE YOU ASPIRATIONS IN LIFE?
(Laughs) Yeah! I'm that weird! Doesn't make me a nerd though! About my aspirations, I would look at myself as a world renowned Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, Prolific Author of consecutive best sellers, Inspirational Poet, Billionaire Entrepreneur and Philanthropist! That's what I strongly believe is my destiny and I've never dreamt of anything less.


WOW! THAT'S SOME AMBITION. I KNOW YOU FOLLOW THIS BLOG.  SO TELL ME, WHICH OF ALL THE POSTS YOU'VE READ IS YOUR FAVOURITE, AND WHY?
(Laughs) Yeah! It's less of trying to stand on top of the world, to me it's more of a call to serve many and leave a legacy as opposed to fame. I'm crazy about Psychology, so it's natural that "Why Teens behave the way they do" would be my favourite.


WOW! THAT WAS ALSO THE FAVOURITE OF OUR TOW#2. COOL. SO IF YOU WERE TO PICK ONE YOU LIKED THE LEAST, WHICH WOULD IT BE AND WHY?
It's simply "favouritish"                 (Laughs). I love studying and explaining why people behave the way they do. In fact, I have been playing amateur psychologist with the little psy knowledge I get from MOOC's and books. About my least favourite, not really sure. I would have to re-read them (the posts) with that in mind!


IF YOU COULD BECOME ANY ANIMAL EXCEPT BEING HUMAN, WHICH WOULD IT BE AND WHY?
Tough one. Lemme think. (Pauses). The King of the Jungle I think.


THE LION, WHY?
Well, the Lion represents an attitude of fearlessness and positivity. The Lion is a leader. He's not as cunning as the snake, sly as the fox, tricky as the hare, wise like the tortoise, agile like the horse, fast as the cheetah or even as big as the elephant, but he's King and it goes for his preys without fear. That represents me I guess! And I want to be more of that!


OH THAT'S GREAT. WHICH DO YOU PREFER, MUSIC OR MOVIES?
 Yeah! I have come to believe the strongest are those who take on the toughest. Well, music is an Art of its own. The power that comes with it is like no other, man! I'm a guy of emotions and thoughts, so I guess Music is my best company


SO WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE GENRE OF MUSIC? WHO'RE YOUR FAVOURITE ARTISTES INTERNATIONALLY AND COUNTRY-WISE?
 To be honest I don't have one particular "no-better-than-this" genre, but I listen to a lot of R&B music because I happen to get a lot of inspiration from the genre. I'm an acapella guy, so I love that too. Add country to the list too. I think those are battling for the title "best". I don't have an overall, but R Kelly and Mariah Carey would be my favourites internationally, and The Gaithers for Gospel. I'm not a fan of our local Music because, unfortunately, it has a lot of "I-want-to-be-western" theme, but there is this guy called Mrisho Mpoto a.k.a "Mjomba" he has great poetic lines, he's a culturalist. I like him; he's African!


THAT'S GOOD. I GUESS THAT MAKES THE TWO OF US, ACAPELLA FANATICS
 (Laughs) Yeah! I love the mix I get from acapella company: The Nylons, Vocal Union, The voice


SO IF THERE WAS SOMETHING I COULD DO TO IMPROVE MY BLOG? WHAT WOULD THAT BE?
 Create a Teenager Community where your readers feed each other by sharing and discussing from their experiences. May be invite some prominent specialist once in a while to share something and invite guest posts too.


WOW! THAT WOULD BE GREAT. I THINK I'LL NEED THE SERVICES OF A PROFESSIONAL WEB DEVELOPER TO HOOK ME UP WITH THE DISCUSSION FORUM. I LOVE THE IDEA OF HAVING GUEST POSTS. THAT WOULD BE SO AWESOME.  SO WHAT WOULD YOU SAY THE STRENGTHS OF The Teenager ARE?
The most notable to me is "Guts"; that it speaks about things that people don't often discuss them openly, especially the civilized, but this is still done a way that it remains moral and educational. I also love the energy. I feel it whenever I read the blog. It is a product of informality and good content! It takes the reader!


THAT'S DEEP. I'M SO HAPPY THAT IT TOUCHES A FEW CORDS. SO YOU SAID SOMETHING ABOUT BEING AN ENTREPRENEUR AND ALL THAT. WHAT STEPS HAVE YOU TAKEN TO BECOME THE BILLIONAIRE YOU'VE ENVISIONED YOURSELF TO BE?
(Laughs) Yeah! Being a blogger myself, I understand how these things work! Well, I'm actually starting a company on the idea of microfinance it's yet to take off but the basic which is the "killer idea" as entrepreneurs would call it, is already set!


THAT SOUNDS GREAT. COULD YOU TELL ME A LITTLE BIT ABOUT WHAT THIS COMPANY IS ALL ABOUT?
 Providing micro-credits to the commonest of the entrepreneurs who do not have collaterals or cannot afford bank requirements; we offer them loans and guidance and within 30 days, they're out of debt and standing, and we make serious profit. It is and that shall be clear soon enough!


THAT SOUNDS LIKE QUITE A BIG PROJECT, MAN. SO I KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A CURRENT STARTUP CALLED THE TONICS FOUNDATION, I DID MY RESEARCH. SO TELL ME MORE ABOUT IT. WHAT IS IT ALL ABOUT?
Oh! The Tonics Foundation, central to my life. It's a philanthropic organization that I founded and fund to implement projects that are focused on developing persons as the approach to a better world. We believe the world got horrible when man died, and the restoration path would require a better generation, that's what we're aimed at—Altruism and Leadership. Our philosophy requires us to do that from four angles.


WHICH FOUR ANGLES ARE THOSE?
First is, Personal Development and our Initiative for that is called Inspired Living. We're hoping to help people Rediscover themselves, figure out what on earth they are here for (that would be their purpose), what careers they should take and how to use their full potential for the common good of humanity, and we already have a blog for that at www.inspired-living.xyz. Second, is Tonics Ministries, where we involve God's love as a transformational tool, while we remain unaffiliated to a particular denomination we preach the power of Christ and we hope to achieve God-fearing men
Third is Tonics Academy where we are changing the paradigms of education, to fit all intelligences and promote creativity while emphasizing on ethics. If education systems have to prepare citizens then they have to holistic and unbiased. This we're yet to launch but we'll soon get on with it
 Last, but not the least actually, is Tonics Charity with which we plan to make opportunities available to those with exceptional talent...the aim is to ensure we don't bury no more dreams and they're used to better the world! I know that's mouthful, but that's brief too! (Laughs)


WOW. I'M GREATLY IMPRESSED. I HOPE TEENAGERS READING THIS WOULD REALISE THAT IT IS NEVER TOO YOUNG TO DREAM OR PLAN YOUR LIFE OUT. SO WE WOULD WRAP UP THIS INTERVIEW WITH ONE FINAL THING. IF YOU COULD TELL TEENAGERS READING THIS INTERVIEW ONE THING, ONE MESSAGE, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
To all Teens out there, I know you badly want success, but truth is you're never truly successful before knowing your purpose, mission and vision in life. Genuine success in life is only possible when that life has a purpose. In fact, there can't be success or failure when purpose itself doesn't exist. So the most important thing you might wanna do as a teenager, is figure that out. If you don't know how, seek someone to help... I have helped some too. My keepsake is a saying you might know, "If you don't know where you're going, any way will take you there!"


I HOPE THEY TAKE THAT SERIOUSLY THOUGH. THANK YOU, TONICS FOR YOUR TIME. I REALLY ENJOYED THIS CONVERSATION. I LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING MORE OF YOU ON THIS BLOG, MAYBE ONE OF THESE DAYS, YOU COULD WORK WITH ME ON THIS BLOG.
 Oh, sure! I would love to. In fact we have to see how we can work together to help teenagers become the noise bubble in the world for the wonders they do. Thanks too for the feature, it’s an honour. Good job, keep it up, thumbs up!


So that’s how the interview with our Teen Of the Week (TOW) #3 went! If you want to find out more about him, Click Here To Contact Him

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Scholarship Opportunities for You!

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Hello Teens,


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The 12 Kinds Of People You Shouldn't Date!

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I know that sometimes we wish we had someone who could advise us on who to date and who not to date; although some of us may have this. So as teenagers we tend to experiment with our emotions by just throwing ourselves headlong into the love scene. For this reason, from my observation, I have come to a conclusion that 69% of all the heart breaks that happen in the world affect teenagers. We are the most susceptible species to emotional trauma due to poor judgement in picking our dating partners. Most of us are extremely eager to start dating because most of our friends are doing it so most times we tend to just ‘date anyone’. That’s not healthy emotionally. If you want to enjoy your relationships, there is a set of people you should always stay away from. I will go into details in just a bit.

1.       The Player
2.       The Emotionless
3.       The Flirt
4.       The ‘Commitmentophobe’
5.       The Workaholic
6.       The Monk/Nun
7.       The Nerd
8.       The Egocentric
9.       The Drama Queen
10.   The Gold Digger
11.   The Pervert
12.   The Thomas


THE PLAYER
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This person is someone who has perfected the art of seduction. A professional player, can seduce you with just a look. Players who succeed in deceiving their victims did not start surveying you the instant they saw you, always remember that. For these people to pull off their scheme, they study their prey for quite a while. He understands your emotional makeup: the things you like and the things you don’t. That’s why they always seem to push the right buttons. He doesn’t say things straight, everything he says or does is suggestive of what could be. Simply the way he walks and talks suggests two things—sex or romance. Once he gets either, he’s gone! Some players now use their skills to obtain money from their preys. Once you have a guy or a girl who seems too nice, chivalrous, perfect, please give him/her a second look.

THE EMOTIONLESS
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This is the person that embodies everything we do not want in a relationship. This person could offend you and still expect you to apologize. Yes, seriously. This person would only seem emotionally attached when the relationship is still in its early stages. After a while, say three months, you’ll begin to see the manifestation of the true emotionless self. To identify these people, look at the way they treat their childhood friends and family. Are they estranged from any member of his/her family? These are the clues you should look out for.

THE FLIRT
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A flirt is simply someone who enjoys arousing sexual feelings in people, most times, without having any intention of getting sexually involved. Believe me when I say that close to 90% of all flirts are attractive people. It’s very easy for us to fall in love with flirts because we misinterpret their subtle gestures of affection for a display of love. In the long run, however, we would find out just how wrong we were. Always try to look beyond the immediate charm of the flirt. The emotional trauma associated with having relationships with flirts is simply inexplicable. You would always feel cheated on, even if sometimes, your guess may be wrong. When you are in a relationship, all those flirtatiousness should be directed towards you. When that doesn’t happen (which is what happens when you date bonafide flirts), the relationship becomes unstable due to the insecurity of one party.

THE ‘COMMITMENTOPHOBE’

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First, we should know that ‘phobe’ relates to the word ‘phobia’ which means fear. The commitmentophobe is one who is afraid of all forms of commitment. This kind of person would stand you up if you invite him/her for a family reunion. Dating a commitmentophobe would make you feel used, like you’re just something he/she does for pastime and nothing more. Nobody wants to love someone that much and have ‘no strings attached’. Please, you worth much more than that. Go for someone who would appreciate you and would not be ashamed to show you off to the world.


THE WORKAHOLIC

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Definitely, most people find hardworking people attractive. However, it becomes a thing of major concern when it’s the only thing that matters to you. Someone who cannot balance work and still spend quality time with you doesn’t love you and, most definitely, does not deserve you. As for us teens, there are some of us who are entrepreneurs and already own several startups. Please learn to balance your work time with your partner. Some of us may be dating these entrepreneurship- , business-minded teens; if they cannot create time for you, please leave. Their work would not listen to them when they have issues they want to talk about, their work would not be there to give them big hugs when things get dicey. Move on!


THE MONK/NUN

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Religion is very important in the life of every teenager, trust me. I have had troubles, dilemmas that no human could get me out of, but God. My religion is something I do not play with. However, when we let our religiousness consume us to such a degree that it transcends into fanaticism, we become free-living monks and nuns. If your religion does not permit dating, then please don’t enter into it in the first place. If you start dating and then back out all of a sudden to ‘focus’ on your ‘religious calling’, my friend, please join a monastery or a nunnery. It feels so good dating someone who values his/her religion very much and still values you, that s one of the greatest gifts of life. When it turns around such that the person begins to care about only his/her religious activities, please leave that relationship. However, do not enter into the relationship in the first place. The first trick to find out if this person you like is a nun or a monk, wait till your first date. If he/she asks to meet in a church or any other religious place, my dear that’s one fine monk/nun you’ve got there.


THE NERD

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Everyone loves smart people. That was a very subjective statement, I know. But tell me, who wouldn’t want to date that smart girl, or that smart guy? Very few, or even next to nobody. Smart people are quite attractive people, but nerds are not. They represent everything the phrase ‘social misfit’ talks about. The difference between a smart person and a nerd is that the smart person has a high intelligence quotient and is able to apply it in academics, life issues, society, and relationships. The nerd on the other hand, only has the brains for equations, complex programming codes (which are all gibberish if all the electricity in the world goes off), etc. A nerd may even get you a textbook on Java scripting for valentines. That’s just sick, unless you are a fellow nerd then that’s cool. Look out to date smart people and not nerds. Dating a nerd would only leave you emotionally unsatisfied, and physically needy…if you know what I mean.


THE EGOCENTRIC

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Please, this is the worst of them all. For those of you who may be unfamiliar with this word, an egocentric person in simple language, is a self-centered person who has little or no regards for the feelings or needs of others. How to detect these people? 1. If he/she does not ask you were you’d like to go for your first date. 2. If he takes you shopping and doesn’t ask what you want. 3. If she only gets happy when you buy her stuff. 4. If he/she is always reluctant to apologize. You should be able to figure out the rest. These kinds of people would only stay in the relationship if it favours them. You deserve better than that!


THE DRAMA QUEEN

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This usually applies to the females. We have a lot of girls today who are highly skilled in the field of exaggeration. One tiny thing you may do, say you came to pick her up late, would turn into a relationship-threatening situation. You don’t need to have such people around you. Dating a drama queen would simply reduce your life expectancy. Never date them. You could have them as friends, that’s cool. But if you plan to live long, please stay away. And to the girls, you know that some of us guys are becoming more and more effeminate as the years go by. Today we now have male drama queens, please do stay away from them too.

THE GOLD DIGGER

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The gold digger sticks around for as long as the money is being supplied. Once the money ceases in supply (but never in demand), the love felt dissolves with it. The gold digger comes with the façade of wanting just ‘true love’, but in the end, we see what he/she was truly after. As for the teenagers who come from humble backgrounds, this does not affect you. As for those of you teens who come from wealthy, aristocratic, and plutocratic families, this message is for you. Dating a gold digger has never done anyone any good. Try to learn to see beyond the veil of that seemingly perfect love affair. How to easily spot a gold digger? That person who says “Let’s have our date at the mall”, that person who always needs money from you to solve ‘personal problems’, that person who tells you how many people he/she is owing, that person who only appreciates you when you buy him/her expensive stuff or take him/her shopping. That’s the gold digger right there.


THE PERVERT

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A pervert is one with no sexual discipline, full stop. The number one danger of dating a perv is that you would never be able to satisfy that person or make him/her feel complete, there would always be greener pastures ‘out there’ that, unfortunately, would never be you. Always try to identify pervs, and stay away from them. The pervert is usually a flirt, and is more often than not, promiscuous.


THE THOMAS

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The use of the word ‘Thomas’ is metaphorical. It alludes to the disciple of Jesus, who doubted the authenticity of the death and resurrection of Jesus by questioning his identity. How does this relate? The key word here is ‘doubt’ which could also mean ‘distrust’. The absence of trust in a relationship is the beginning of the end of that relationship. A Thomas is one who doesn’t trust you, who finds it difficult to believe you. There is always a reason for him/her to doubt your actions and your motives. Dating such people would only make you even more insecure about yourself as you may even start doubting yourself. Try to avoid Thomases as much as possible, if he/she can’t trust you, he/she does not deserve to have you.




 So there you go, I came up with this post through series of introspection, surveying, and recounting of past experiences, and of course, movies! If you go through the entire twelve kinds of people you would notice that in some way they are interrelated. Definitely, it’s impossible to find that perfect person, but it is possible to find someone close to perfect. Why not try it? If you have any questions or contributions, please drop a comment!

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